Why not be Remarkable?

Why not be Remarkable?
Got these words of wisdom from someone a while ago and feel compelled to pass them on. We can never stop working on making us better to make the world a better place!


33 Ways To Be Remarkable and Stand Out




Live Your Own Life
There is nothing remarkable about someone who is constantly trying to be like other people. Be yourself and be the best you that you can possibly be.





Be Authentic
Mean the things you say and do. Authenticity is not very common these days but when it is there, it shines through your words and actions and is very powerful for creating bonds with others.





Come Up With Your Own Sayings
Come up with your own quirky and original sayings. People will take notice and it may even catch on. By coming up with your own original sayings you stand out from everyone else who just uses clichés.





Leave Others Better Than You Found Them
Make it a habit to leave people in a better state then you found them. Happier, healthier, stronger, wealthier. This is a major way of being remarkable.





Help People Without Wanting Anything In Return
Volunteer to help other people out. Give some of your time, money or resources to help a fellow human being and expect absolutely nothing in return.





Don’t Try To Be Perfect
Be creative and abstract instead of trying to live up to other people’s expectation of perfect. You can achieve great and beautiful things without them living up to the general consensus of perfect.





Face Your Fears
People who avoid things because they are scared will never be remarkable. Face your fears and conquer them. Do you think Lance Armstrong would have been remarkable if he had given up cycling after he had cancer?





Take The Plunge
Be that person who does what others won’t do. If others are too scared to attempt something that you are not scared to do, just go out and do it with all your passion and energy.





Question The Norm
Just because something is done by millions of people around the world in a certain way does not mean it is the right or the only way to do something. Question the norm and don’t be afraid to do something differently.





Expose Yourself
Get up on stage or in front of people. Risk putting your ideas and creativity out in public, available for criticism and humiliation. What if Jay Z would have been to scared to perform in public and kept all his talent and art to himself in his basement?





Start Your Own Tribe
Be a leader instead of a follower. Build up a community or tribe of like minded people who will follow you and use your power to make a difference for the better in this world.





Say NO To Things
If something goes against your principles or you don’t really want it, say NO. You might risk offending some people, but most will respect you for having strong boundaries and sticking to them.





You Are Enough
Have the mindset that you have all the assets to be remarkable. You have talent and you have a gift. Share it with the world.





Be Optimistic
Optimism and smiles are contagious. Make the world a happy and positive place.





Be confident
Know what you want and be confident that you are going to get it. I think that all remarkable people share the trait of confidence.





Be Humble
Arrogance and vanity are not traits to associate with people you respect and think highly of. No matter how good, famous or wealthy you are, stay humble with both feet on the ground.





Create something that brings joy to other peoples lives
Art, a painting, a video clip, a film, a song, a poem, a book and so on and so forth. Be artistic and express your talent in a form that it can be shared with everyone without the expectation of getting rich from it. It’s your gift to the world.





Invent something that everyone needs
The disposable razor or a cigarette lighter for example. There could be one little thing that seems so simple yet will make the lives of millions of people so much easier.





Take something that works and make it better
The Japanese are pretty good at this. They took a normal train and change it into the fastest train in the world (bullet train). Take a normal and existing concept and make an exceptional change to it.





Start a movement
People look for a leader, someone who takes charge and takes initiative. Someone who has good intentions and wants to make a big change for the better. Be that leader and start a movement to change something that is not right in this world.





Fight for peace and freedom
All around the world there is so much unnecessary war and suffering. It seems impossible for one person to make a difference, but if everyone thinks like that, things will never change. Stop a war or change violent policies of a country and you will be remarkable.





Preserve our planet
Rainforests are being destroyed, species wiped out, oceans overfished and beautiful ecosystems perish. Make a difference and start a movement to do something about the destruction of our planet.





Help the hungry
There are so many people dying of hunger all around the world every single day. Do something to make a lasting difference. One idea I had was to get every person travelling on a plane to forfeit their meal for the hungry. A combined effort by all passengers would result in thousands of meals a day that could be given to hungry people all across the world.





Push the limits (break a record)
If you can do something that nobody else has been able to achieve, then you will not only get noticed but you will certainly be remarkable. You may just be the psychological inspiration for many others to get past the level that was always thought of as unbreakable.





Revolutionize an industry
Waltz into an industry or niche with a great idea or new perspective and put that idea in motion. If you can improve or revolutionize the way an entire industry does something then you are pretty remarkable.





Tell Compelling Stories
Stories are an amazing way to share knowledge and experiences with others. If you know how to create compelling and fun stories, you can make a big impact on the lives of others. That’s remarkable.





Think Better
Be a step ahead of everyone else. Think faster, better or more efficiently.





Read More Interesting Things
The more you read, the more you shape your personality. The more interesting things that you read, the more likely you are to become an interesting (and remarkable) person.





Don’t Be Boring
One requirement of being remarkable is that you are not boring. Be original, fun and get things done.





Stop Making Excuses
Either do something or don’t do it at all. Don’t be someone who always has excuses to stall doing something or justify why you didn’t do something.






Never Settle For Average
Never be content with average or mediocrity. When other people give up and settle, carry on going and be better than them.





Do What You Say
If people can rely on you and they know that when you say something that you will do it, you are well on your way to being remarkable. If you make a promise, keep it.





Don’t Aim To Be Remarkable
As contradictory as it sounds, most remarkable people never set out to be remarkable. They did what they loved and were really passionate and that is what got them to being remarkable.

The Next Wave of Foreclosed Properties - Here they come!

As mentioned in a previous post, the foreclosures, REO's, short sales or just plain ol' properties in distress will be making a robust appearance in June 2010 as advised by CAR ( Calif. Assoc. Of Real Estate).
With my re-certification or basically updating of information from all the new regulations that have been cascading out to REALTORS with this steady supply of distressed properties I have a current understanding of the latest criteria available to buyers for these properties. This is not my chosen source for buyers but now that Banks own them, there is no alligence an agent feels to this "seller". Some spectacular prices now on many of these properties - typically 50% off prices of 2005!! The qualifying criteria is very stringent but if this is to be your HOME and you are setting down roots, what a great opportunity!
Check out these several links to see some of the gems in Tahoe and Santa Cruz that are truly bargins.

REO Buyer Financial Updates May 2010

Just got my current Residential REO Buyer Specialist Certification, put it to your BEST advantage!!

This is the latest info on REO Foreclosed homes that has come down the pipe through CAR (Calif. Assoc. of Realtors)

With a new supply of foreclosed home coming on the market expected in June according to Credit Suisse, CAR and many national banks are stepping up to the plate and 'training' agents/brokers on what each individual bank wants to see from a BUYER. The guide lines are similar but in this new day of personal responsibility the qualifying perameters are pretty --- well, REAL! And thats a good thing!!
Most of this is what used to be in the good ol' days.
Buyers/users are being required to have a minimum of a 660 credit score, this is down from a 720 recently.
Two years fully documented income and last quarter investment accounts.
If self employed
Two year tax returns
Rental income, corporation or partnership schedules, social security or other retirement income schedules for the past two year.

Qualifying Debt Ratios

The 'front' ratio for a conforming loan is 28%, 33 for a non-conforming loan, and 31% for FHA. There is NO ratio used in VA loans.

The 'Back' ratio or the total monthly debt of the buyer for a conforming loan is 36%, 40 for a non-conforming and FHA is 43%. VA in computed by a different manor and the ratio is 41%.
Mortgage Insurance come into play here also when a buyer puts down less than 20%.

Fixer-upper - REO's plenty of room in loans to rehad these and well, there are many other details and loan packages that have been devised to get these ones moving.

Just give a call, I give you the low down!

The Lending Institutions - The rest of the Story!

Part Five of a Five part series
Lending Institutions
(NON- living, breathing entities)

A quote that should be etched over the entrance of every lending institution and Congress!

During Times of Universal Deceit,
Telling The Truth is a Revolutionary Act - George Orwell.

Things to do before you read:
Here’s a little homework before you get too far along.

1. Research Glass-Steagall Act 1933
2. Repeal of Glass-Steagall Act 1999
3. Look up Resolution Trust Corporation (RTC) 1989
4. www.sfweekly.com/2010-09-01/news/why-obama-s-mortgage-relief-program-failed/


Now that you have a better understanding of the regulations that have been created, played with and lessons learned that are being ignored - we will proceed.

Money, ahhhh money! It can be a source of security, used to purchased ones basic needs, benefit those in need, provide items of satisfaction to the ego, but All to often it spawns GREED!
Think, Madoff, Rothstein, Ponzi anyone??!


BANKS --- These are the places we have traditionally come to for financing large purchases and to a certain extent we still can. BUT the game plan has changed.

We have gone from the mid ‘90’s and mid 2000’s basically with Lending institutions giving money away to anyone with a pulse, by pressure from Fannie Mae/Freddie Mac run by politicians that wanted not only the economy to seem bountiful but to catapult the populous mindset from a “Chicken in every pot” to “A home OWNER under every roof”!!
This ideology, lacking reality, creating an environment of Corruption, set in motion the inevitable “Bubble to BURST“.
Now, currently highly qualified people, applying for loans, having to disclose/explain why a payment three years ago incurred a late fee because you forgot to put a stamp on the envelope - and still being run through the ringer!!

The Banks are holding on to money- typically taxpayer bailout money - tighter and longer for many reasons.

The most prominent is the state of flux the world is in and the BANKERS don‘t want to be caught short. There are so many variables in play these days and I will only go into the Real Estate side.

With the quantity of Bank Owned homes and the unknown of how long they have to be kept on books , while maintaining them, paying taxes, clean-up/repair, etc. etc., when more will be stockpiled and for how long is a major factor in why banks are not letting loose of the cash. The short sales and what the loses will be, weigh on the picture and then certain gov’t regulations on modifications that are just starting to trickle out.
The second shoe should just begin starting to drop shortly too, with the commercial RE market.
Locally, we have been seeing businesses shutting their doors and having to walk away from their leases. The trickle-down effect is devastating on property owners that don’t have deep pockets. So, we go into phase two of the RE tailspin that will additionally be affecting lenders. They need to satisfy share holders/stock portfolios and all that keep the engin of our country running. With the current economic downturn, lack of business start-ups and jobs, that is the basis of the pyramid that is not being attended to.

So while the balance of not letting too many foreclosed homes drench the market while mostly investors soak up this supply, we the tax paying - Bailout supporting public, wait to see what next is in store on the horizon with the BANKS and all that controls the money supply

Picking Your Mortgage Broker/Loan Officer

(Part four of a five part series)
You can’t beat experienced lenders/brokers! I mean the people you deal with face-to-face! Not the institutions.
Professionalism is what you are looking for here. The way they handle themselves, the words they pick, are they clear?, their presence, dress, grooming! Yes, you might say - huh! This is ALL important. If they have a sloppy appearance, demeanor - the transaction could be a rough ride.
Meet with several! Get to know this person - he/she can make or break the transaction!
The person you choose should know - DAILY - what is happening in the world of money. There is so much that drives the financial world quickly these days. They are not miracle workers, they are human. They should have back-up, a ‘team’ that you get familiar with. This person should give you the feeling of confidence and security that YOUR interests in this very important investment in your life will be professionally handled. How do they respond to questions? Can you easily understand them, the financial lingo? Are they speaking comprehendible, in shortcut speech? You should feel as though you are building a professional relationship here. Trust, confidence, knowledgeable, honesty. If you leave with anything less - keep looking! Call me, I work with several Great ones!

The Property - all the types!

(Part three of a five part series)
If you are a seller, the value is dictated to a degree, these days on how financially sound YOU are (see previous post)! If you are current on your mortgage do not have financial distress, have been ‘smart’ about keeping the property maintained and updated, you should be able to get a decent price as long as you are not in a big hurry.

On the other hand if you are financially troubled, lost your job, behind in payments, (see previous post), expect to basically hand over the keys and have enough for a rental deposit.
Beyond all that, the basics still apply. Great location - it sells itself!
Shows great maintenance, fresh, pristine - it sells itself.
Well designed, color choices, décor/staging - it sells itself.

The days of sticking a sign on the front and counting on a buyers foresight of potential is gone for the time being.
I do see multiple offers but this is mostly on REO’s (Bank owned) that have been deeply discounted.

---Foreclosures, Short Sales, REO’s (Bank owned)

A key aspect of these properties is location/neighborhood - what’s going on with the rest of it!!!

The major issue I want to bring forward in this posting is to make you aware that these properties are more often than not, damaged goods. Many owners that are losing their houses don’t want anyone else to reap the benefits of a ‘cheaper’ home. I has become common for the last weeks of possession, owners destroy their houses. Sheetrock is sledge hammered, plumbing is ripped out, cement flushed down toilet, windows broken, cabinets sledged hammered -- ehh- you get the picture! If I can’t benefit from this no one will!
Then there are the hidden defects, things you don’t see. If you are pursuing Foreclosures/short sales - watch out!!
The tax liens, HOA dues and/or taxes in arrears, mechanics liens, and recorded judgments and deed restrictions that could jeopardize the value of your BARGIN! All of these things follow the property and the new owner can very easily be haunted by such for years.

REO’s are the safest of the bunch to pursue. The Lending institution provides the cleanest transaction. Taxes and HOA have been paid and you usually get a clear title. They typically hire a maintenance and repair Co. to do a basic clean-up. They will remove all the damaged members of the property board-up windows, change locks to make the property pretty secure. The new owner usually has a project to remedy for that 50%+ discount they have secured. Again, the wisest thing to do is get help from a professional, this is the biggest investment in your life!

The Sellers (part two of a 5 part series)

There are the two basic categories -

Non-distressed and DISTRESSED

It makes a BIG difference which one you are in.

If you are clinging on by your fingernails to put food on the table and keep a roof over your head, there are those that can sniff you out and go for the jugular. Usually when that Notice of Default is filed, this is a clear sign.
I have seen how quickly word gets out when someone is down and the sharks begin to circle. By the way - this is a DISTRESSED SELLER.

For you just regular, keeping it together, sellers take heed.
This is the real world and unless you have a ‘Golden Goose’ in the backyard, you should act quickly, price your home competitively and pray! It is a wild ride right now in what determines which property sells and which one sits. Be smart, stage it, and mentally
move out!

There are factors out of your control and with more and more foreclosed homes due to come on the market, the banks making it very hard for the qualified borrower to get that loan, you will have to have a mountain of patience and a Real Estate Broker that is experienced and connected to many excellent resources. Hmmm … who could that be?
I don’t mean to make light of this situation BUT … until the tide turns having a concise plan of action laid out is the all important first step.
To get there, a pointed consultation with an Experience Real Estate Profession will make all the difference!!
(to be continued ….)